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Reviewing your parenting plan as the year begins

On Behalf of | Jan 9, 2024 | Child Custody & Support |

As the year begins, it’s an opportune time for parents of minor children who are separated or divorced, to review and potentially revise their parenting plan. The essence of a successful parenting plan lies in its ability to evolve with the changing needs of the affected children and the dynamics of both parents’ lives. It cannot serve its intended purpose as effectively as it otherwise might if it isn’t regularly reviewed and adjusted if needed.

As you prepare to review your family’s parenting plan, start by reflecting on the past year. Ask yourself what worked well and what didn’t. Consider your children’s feedback about the time spent with each parent, transitions between homes and any conflicts or challenges that arose. This reflection can highlight aspects of the plan that may need to be adjusted.

Making the effort

Effective co-parenting requires open communication. As you review your plan with your co-parent, discuss changes in schedules, living arrangements or significant life events that might impact the parenting plan as you move forward. These discussions should be conducted respectfully, focusing on the best interests of the children.

Above all, your child’s well-being should be at the heart of any parenting plan. Decisions about whether to adjust the plan in any particular way should be made with their best interests in mind, ensuring they feel loved, secure and cared for by both parents.

As you embark on another year, taking the time to review and update your parenting plan (if necessary and appropriate) can make a significant difference in your child’s life. It’s not just about adhering to a schedule, but about nurturing and adapting to your child’s evolving needs, ensuring they have a supportive and loving environment.

If your parenting plan is largely working for your family, great! But, if not, reviewing it thoughtfully can give you an opportunity to think critically about any adjustments that may need to be made to serve your child’s interests in the coming year.